We crossed paths for a reason. People are seasons, and you shouldn’t apologize for life happening. This is not something you created, sometimes after so much time you begin to realizes things have changed n the person we thought could n would never hurt us, becomes really great at misplacing their heart. (Until its too late) I’m happy to be here for you, trust me. If I didn’t want to be, I wouldn’t be as available. I’ve been through break ups n make ups, I know the drill. Just sucks investing so much time and effort, then watching the other person walk all over everything you’ve established together.
Don’t stop chasing.
I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not work out in the long run is because at one point, one side (or both) stops trying. Before one claims another person as their significant other, they would do anything to make that person happy. They would chase, they would flirt, they would be charming. They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write corny messages and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon your face. But once they claim you as theirs, all of those things eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. The constant calls turn into not calling at all. And the lovely endearments turn into daily arguments. In order for a relationship to work, don’t ever stop chasing. Just because the person you want is now consider “yours”, it does not mean they deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over.